The Approach

Ladies, have y'all ever been approached by a man, but his approach was just........OFF. Well, gentlemen, this one's for y'all. Hopefully this post will help with your approach next time you try to talk to a woman. I asked a couple of friends what were their top turn offs, and here's what they said...

Turn-Off's

1. He says " Put your number in my phone"

2. He tries to get your attention by saying " Yo" or " Aye" or some sort of ratchet bird call

3. He keeps asking for your number after you say no once already

4. He touches you, yet doesn't even know you

5. He's waaay to cocky

6. He's look at something other than her face or eyes...

7. He talks too much, even when it's evident she has somewhere to be

8. He tries to get your attention by saying" Shawty with the big booty", or tries to describe you by whatever you have on

9. Says something dumb

Trust me, there were many more! After reading these, I hope you haven't been a repeat offender. The simple question of " Give me 3 turn-offs when a guy approaches you", really showed me how superficial women really are, but that's another post. At the end of the day, most women probably have these same complaints. So why, WHY do y'all still continue to do it? I guess that's a question you'll have to answer for your self. In the meantime I've dropped a couple turn on's below so y'all know what women like!

Turn-On's

1. He has good conversation

2. His demeanor is right it doesn't seem like he's trying to run game

3. He starts with " Hi how are you, my name is... What's your name?

4. He seems interested in actually getting to know her

5. He seems respectful

6.He has good eye contact

Now let's discuss some things that weren't mentioned...

It is a MUST that you check your breath before you approach a woman, like c'mon, you had plenty of time to do a breath check, pop a piece of gum, sip some water, SOMETHING, before you approached her. If you're skeptical, just put your hand up to your mouth and exhale. I'm just trying to save some hurt feelings. First impressions are EVERYTHING. Now I understand, we all have our off days but, don't get upset if a woman judges you from what you look like when you approach her. Y'ALL DO IT TOO, sooooo, if you want to be taken seriously, maybe you should wait until you see her next time, or just try your luck.

I guess the next question would be, are these the reasons men no longer approach women? ...

Let me know what y'all think!